What if the way you run your home could shape how your kids understand money, responsibility, and decision-making for life?
In this episode of Your Family Bank, Blake Johnson sits down ...with Jon Bassford—best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and creator of the Trust the Process method—to explore how intentional systems, clear expectations, and curiosity-driven conversations can transform how kids relate to money. Drawing from his own upbringing, entrepreneurial journey, and co-parenting experience, Jon shares how he teaches his son about earning, spending, investing, and patience—without entitlement or fear.
Key themes you’ll hear in this episode:
• How allowances, chores, and consequences build real financial responsibility
• Why experiences often matter more than things—and how to model that as a parent
• Using curiosity and systems (not emotions) to guide money conversations with kids
Whether you’re navigating allowance debates, co-parenting dynamics, or simply want your children to respect money without being ruled by it, this episode offers practical insights you can apply immediately.
Press play and start building a family culture that runs on clarity, values, and purpose—not chaos.
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Raising Money-Smart Kids on Purpose
What if the way you run your home could shape how your kids understand money, responsibility, and decision-making for life?
In this episode of Your Family Bank, Blake Johnson sits down ...with Jon Bassford—best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and creator of the Trust the Process method—to explore how intentional systems, clear expectations, and curiosity-driven conversations can transform how kids relate to money. Drawing from his own upbringing, entrepreneurial journey, and co-parenting experience, Jon shares how he teaches his son about earning, spending, investing, and patience—without entitlement or fear.
Key themes you’ll hear in this episode:
• How allowances, chores, and consequences build real financial responsibility
• Why experiences often matter more than things—and how to model that as a parent
• Using curiosity and systems (not emotions) to guide money conversations with kids
Whether you’re navigating allowance debates, co-parenting dynamics, or simply want your children to respect money without being ruled by it, this episode offers practical insights you can apply immediately.
Press play and start building a family culture that runs on clarity, values, and purpose—not chaos.
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Why Conflict Is Really Emotional
Most family, money, and business conflicts aren’t about facts or fairness. They’re about unresolved emotion.
In this episode of Your Family Bank, host Blake Johnson sits down with former litigation attorney ...turned conflict-resolution consultant Ursula Taylor to explore why traditional legal approaches often make disputes worse, not better. Drawing on 17 years of high-stakes litigation experience and deeply personal family loss, Ursula explains how grief, fear, and emotional “charge” quietly drive conflict in families, businesses, and estates, and how addressing those emotions first can save relationships, time, and money.
Together, they unpack how emotional awareness can prevent costly litigation, why pausing during grief is critical for estate planning decisions, and how leaders and families can navigate tension without escalating disputes.
Key takeaways include:
• Why litigation often amplifies family conflict instead of resolving it
• How grief and fear shape money decisions and inheritance battles
• Practical tools to “release the charge” and approach conflict with clarity
• How parents can model healthier money and emotional habits for their children
If you care about preserving relationships, protecting legacy, and making better decisions under pressure, this conversation will change how you think about conflict.
Listen now and learn how to reimagine conflict before it costs you more than money.
Stepping away from your company should feel like freedom — so why does it feel like free-fall?
Executive coach Jeff Munn joins Blake Johnson to unpack the emotional crash so many ...founders face after selling their business. From identity loss to the search for purpose, Jeff explains why massive exits often create a “valley of despair” — and how leaders can prepare long before the wire hits their account. He also shares insights on raising grounded kids, breaking generational money stories, and redefining legacy beyond the balance sheet.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• Why the hardest part of selling your company isn’t the money — it’s who you become after
• How to prepare before the exit so you’re running toward something, not away
• What founders get wrong about struggle, purpose, and happiness (and how to rewire it)
• How to build resilient kids without manufacturing fake hardship
Jeff’s message is a powerful reminder: the life you want next requires a decision — not more data.
The Science of Bravery, Happiness, and Raising Resilient Kids
In this episode, Blake is joined by Jill Schulman - former U.S. Marine Corps Officer, leadership expert, founder of Breakthrough Leadership Group, and author of The Bravery Effect. With a ...master’s degree in Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania, Jill blends research from neuroscience, psychology, and behavioral science to teach people how to build courage, resilience, and a life of meaning.
Together, Blake and Jill dive into:
• Topics Covered
• Why the military phrase “Embrace the Suck” is more relevant for families than ever
• The science behind happiness and Jill’s breakdown of the PERMA model
• Why kids today struggle more—and what parents can actually do about it
• How to help children develop bravery, confidence, and real resilience
• The danger of removing all obstacles from kids' lives
• “Manufacturing struggle” in healthy ways so young people learn to thrive
• How parents can apply Jill’s bravery framework to themselves
• The importance of purpose, challenge, and meaning in creating a fulfilling life
• The relationship between hard work, self-esteem, and long-term wellbeing
• Why overcoming discomfort—not avoiding it—is the key to flourishing
• Building a family culture around courage, growth, and doing hard things
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The Legal Traps That Break Families
What if the dream of building a family business could destroy the family itself?
In this episode, attorney and business dispute expert Parag L. Amin, Esq. shares the personal story of ...how his father lost everything due to one overlooked legal step — and how that experience shaped his life’s mission to help business owners protect what they’ve built. Parag and Blake break down the real reasons family partnerships fall apart, what to discuss before conflict happens, and how to transition a business to the next generation without drama.
Key Takeaways:
• Why “we’ll figure it out because we’re family” can be the most dangerous assumption
• The conversations every family business must have before a dispute occurs
• How to fairly transition leadership across generations (without creating resentment)
• Why fairness doesn’t always mean equal — especially among siblings
Whether you’re building a business, preparing to pass one down, or trying to protect your family from the fights you’ve seen others go through — this episode offers real, grounded guidance you can act on today.
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🌐 Website & Book Info: paraglamin.com
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Rewiring the Mind: How to Break Financial Conditioning
Most people don’t realize their relationship with money was programmed long before adulthood. In this episode, Blake Johnson sits down with behavioral psychology expert Jake Stahl to uncover how childhood ...experiences, body language, and subtle conditioning shape the way we think, spend, and communicate, especially with our kids.
From using psychology to teach financial responsibility to creating safe spaces where children actually open up, this conversation is packed with surprising insights that bridge family, money, and mindset.
Key Takeaways:
• Why most of your money habits come from age 13, and how to rewrite them
• The powerful parenting trick that gets kids talking (no force required)
• How to “condition” positivity, resilience, and financial confidence at home
If you’ve ever wanted to communicate better, raise grounded kids, or reset your money mindset, this episode will shift how you see yourself and your family legacy forever.
Host: Blake Johnson - Founder, Your Family Bank
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Raising Financially Smart Kids After Divorce
Divorce doesn’t just divide finances - it can shape how children learn about money, values, and resilience.
In this episode, Blake Johnson sits down with divorce coach Karen Covy to explore ...how parents can navigate the emotional and financial complexities of divorce while raising grounded, financially literate kids. From managing money conversations with your ex to teaching children long-term responsibility, Karen shares hard-earned insights from her transition from divorce attorney to coach.
Key Takeaways:
• Divorce is more about emotional clarity than legal battles
• Spoiling kids doesn’t soften pain - structure builds resilience
• Communication between co-parents is key to a child’s stability
• Teach money values early to build lifelong financial confidence
• Plan your legacy thoughtfully to prevent family conflict later
If you’re navigating divorce or co-parenting and want to raise confident, capable kids — this episode offers both practical tools and heartfelt wisdom.
In this episode of the Your Family Bank podcast, Blake Johnson interviews Jonathan Goldhill, an expert in family business coaching. They discuss the complexities of transitioning family businesses to the ...next generation, emphasizing the importance of communication, understanding, and engagement. Jonathan shares his journey into family business coaching, the challenges faced by both outgoing and incoming generations, and the significance of modeling good financial behaviors. The conversation also touches on the need for structured ownership and the role of legacy in financial literacy for future generations.
TAKEWAYS:
-Family businesses require open communication for successful transitions.
-Next generation leaders need to be invited into the business, not forced.
-Modeling good financial behaviors can impact future generations.
-Fairness in business succession is more important than equality.
-Parents should prepare their children for financial responsibilities early.
-Facilitated family meetings can help clarify business visions.
-The emotional cost of avoiding family business discussions can be high.
-Legacy is about the impact you make, not just financial success.
-Children should be allowed to struggle and learn from their experiences.
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Raising Kids Who Understand Money
What if your kids grew up truly knowing the value of a dollar? In this heartfelt episode, Blake sits down with his wife Karli to share their real-life journey of ...building financial resilience, teaching work ethic, and preparing their kids for a future of independence and generosity.
From growing up in feast-or-famine households to facing crushing debt in college, Karli’s candid stories reveal why she’s passionate about helping their children avoid the same pitfalls—and instead, develop confidence and character through money lessons at home.
Together, Blake and Karli discuss:
• Practical ways they teach their kids to earn, save, and give
• How childhood money struggles shaped their parenting today
• Why building legacy is about more than just finances
This episode is full of real, relatable takeaways for families who want to raise kids that thrive—not just survive—financially and in life.
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From Chaos to Clarity with Rob Kalwarowsky
What if the life that looked perfect on the outside was quietly breaking you on the inside? Executive coach and bestselling author Rob Kalwarowsky shares his journey from depression and ...fear-driven living to building a life of joy, freedom, and purpose in Costa Rica.
In this episode of Your Family Bank, Rob opens up about:
🔵 Breaking free from scarcity mindsets passed down through generations
🔵 The power of inner work to transform your finances, relationships, and leadership
🔵 Practical tools to stay grounded when chaos and uncertainty feel overwhelming
Rob’s story is proof that you can rewrite your legacy—one choice, one belief, one breath at a time.
✨ Connect with Rob:
🌐 robkalwarowsky.com
📖 Capitalizing on Chaos – available on Amazon & Barnes & Noble
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Reintroducing the Trusted Podcast, Your Estate Planning Resource with Blake Johnson
Welcome back to the Trusted Podcast with your host, Managing Partner at Trusted Estate Planning Attorneys, Blake Johnson. Blake is returning after a three-year hiatus to bring you trusted information on estate planning and related fields. Tune in to the episode to hear about:
The Trusted Podcast’s Aim — Why Blake is bringing the podcast back now after over three years and what he hopes you, the audience will take away from each episode
Reintroducing Blake Johnson, Managing Attorney of Trusted Estate Planning Attorneys — Learn a little about Blake, personally and professionally, and how his experience brings a unique perspective to the estate planning field
The Importance of Estate Planning — The basics of what estate planning involves, essential documents, how to pick a trusted estate planning professional, and why every family should have an estate plan
About the Trusted Podcast
In each episode of the Trusted Podcast, Blake Johnson, managing partner at Trusted Estate Planning Attorneys, interviews professionals in different areas of life that you need as a trusted source of information, including trust and estate planning. You can trust this podcast to provide information on estate planning and related fields. Watch or listen to more episodes of Trusted:
Episode Title: The Family Bank: Maintaining Generational Wealth with John Nebeker
Episode Description:
Trusted with Blake Johnson, Episode 4
In this episode of the Trusted Podcast, your host, estate planning attorney, Blake Johnson, speaks with John Nebeker, financial advisor with Eagle Strategies and author of the award-winning book, The Family Bank: the Key to Generational Wealth.
Tune in to the episode to hear about:
John’s Journey to Rethinking Estate Planning: How planning a family trip to Europe got John thinking about his family’s future and financial security and how the documents he was signing didn’t seem to answer all of his questions.
The Family Bank Concept: John created a research project for himself to get to a place to create his home family bank putting money away for his needs — emergency fund, retirement, etc. — with the hope and plan that it will be shared with his children in the form of low interest loans in the future.
The Pitfalls in Traditional Estate Plans: Dumping cash or investments that could easily be turned into cash onto family members with no education or rules can cause problems in family dynamics or be wasted.
Learn from the Rockefellers: John uses the Rockefellers as an example of how to pass on not just money but work ethic and responsibility that allows wealth to be maintained over generations.
How to Set Up a Family Bank and Why: How you can start a family bank with just a little bit of money and some individuals who want to get ahead with that money.
Advice from a Financial Advisor: John shares some of the best financial advice he’s received over the years.
In each episode of the Trusted Podcast, Blake Johnson, managing partner at Trusted Estate Planning Attorneys, interviews professionals in different areas of life that you need as a trusted source of information, including trust and estate planning. You can trust this podcast to provide information on estate planning and related fields.
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